Hitherto

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In search of a happy, smiling life partner

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Hitherto
Hitherto
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My Sect
Sunni
Religiousness
Prefer not to say
My Profession
Computing/IT
Marital Status
Widowed
County/State
West Midlands
Country
United Kingdom
Registration Reason
I'm registering to find myself a partner

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A Little Bit About Me
Never in my most wildest dreams did I ever imagine that I'd be stood in front of the mirror, trying to take a picture on my phone whilst pouting at my own reflection! I suppose that's what the mysterious world of online matrimony has reduced me too!

I also suppose it means that I can multitask (mirror, phone, pout, click).

Furthermore, I've learned that I'm hopeless at taking selfies. For the scientifically minded, photographic evidence has been provided!

So I was born in the Midlands in the summer of 78, I'm just under 6ft tall, of medium build with grey (or silver) beard & hair and, I wear glasses.

A widower with children, I'd like to think I take my religious duties seriously and try my very best to fulfill my Islamic rights & responsibilities as a Muslim, a husband, father and son. However, I think (and I hope) that I try to live with a smile on my face and, I enjoy being silly with those closest to me in the hope I can spread some joy, smiles and laughs...

I don't think it's for me to comment on whether I'm religious, funny, intelligent, educated, easy going etc, etc. Surely these are subjective traits and it's for a prospective spouse to decide from her own unique perspective. One person's funny can be another's idiotic!

Whilst I've already performed Hajj & Umrah I'd love to go again with my wife. I would also like to travel to other places with her should our circumstances allow insha'Allah.

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What I Am Looking For
Ideally looking to make a deep emotional connection. A person that I can share any thought with and, discuss & debate any subject with - whilst still being be able to laugh and smile.

A soulmate, a best friend, a confidant, a partner in every sense of the word. The coolness of my eyes.

Someone who brings out the best in me and encourages me to be a better Muslim and a better man.

The greatest and the best of all of mankind - Rasool'Allah SAW said about his wife Khadija RA:

".... she helped and comforted me when there was no one else to lend me a helping hand."
".... Love for her runs in my blood and is nestled in my heart." (Musnad Ahmed)

"I was nourished by her love" (Sahih Muslim)

I pray that we can all find someone whom we can feel this way about and, they love us back the very same. Ameen ya Rabbul Alameen.

If anything above has piqued any interest, please feel free to drop me a line to find out more.

## NOTE ##
To allow for a smooth transition, prepared to live apart if needed (for a time) after marriage. This is NOT the desired option but an attempt to be pragmatic for the aim of long term happiness.

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Personal Information
My Citizenship
British
Country of Origin
United Kingdom
Willing to Relocate?
None
I am Looking to Marry
As soon as possible
My Income
over 50,000
Marital Status
Widowed
Would I like to have Children?
No
Do I have children?
Yes
My Living Arrangements?
I Live Alone
Country
United Kingdom
County/State
West Midlands
Distance
unknown
Appearance
My Height
1.81m
My Build
Medium
My Hair Colour
Grey
Colour of My Eyes
Hazel
Do I Smoke?
No
Do I Have Any Disabilities?
No
Education
My Education Level
Bachelors degree
Subject I Studied
Computing
Language
My First Language
English
My Second Language
Punjabi
Work
My Profession
Computing/IT
My Job Title
Cyber security thingy
Religion
Religiousness
Prefer not to say
My Sect
Sunni
Hijab/Niqab
Prefer not to say
Beard
Yes
Are You a Revert?
No
Do You Keep Halal?
I Always Keep Halal
Do You Perform Salaah?
Always